Maddi & Clark

Before our diagnosis, I was already navigating a challenging time with my health. I had undergone multiple surgeries for endometriosis, so deep down, I always had a feeling fertility might not come easily for me. When I was being treated for the pain, it became clear that getting pregnant could be difficult, and that reality was hard to process.

My OB/GYN referred me to Shady Grove Fertility, and that’s where our journey truly began. 

A team that made me feel seen

From the start, I felt supported and cared for. Dr. Libby, Dr. McCarthy-Keith, and Dr. Katler were such a source of comfort to me, especially during intrauterine inseminations (IUIs) and transfers. Having providers who made me feel seen and understood meant everything during such a vulnerable time. 

We were in treatment with SGF for about three years. It was a long road filled with both hope and heartbreak. The highs gave me so much excitement and anticipation, while the lows felt incredibly heavy. A typical day during treatment was often stressful — keeping up with exact medication times, injections, appointments, and the constant worry that came with it all. It can be consuming. 

What gave me hope throughout the process was knowing I wasn’t alone. Seeing other women walk this road and eventually hold their miracle babies reminded me that there was a light at the end of the tunnel, even when it felt far away. 

What I know now

Looking back, I wish I had been easier on myself. I spent so much time doubting my body and blaming myself, when in reality, I was stronger and more capable than I realized. This journey taught me resilience in ways I never expected.

And today, we have our 18-month-old son, who is our entire world and our greatest blessing. Every moment of the journey was worth it to have him.

To anyone currently walking through infertility, I want you to know this: you are not alone. There are so many of us who understand exactly how you feel. Lean on the people you love — it truly takes a village. Allow yourself to feel every emotion, without guilt. And most importantly, be gentle with yourself.

Your baby is coming. I truly believe that.